Rules dating older men
If you’re relatively young and single, chances are you have a bit of disposable income.
Yet, while your older man probably earns a decent salary, you should remember that he might have more serious financial commitments than you.
You may find yourself considering dating an older man, and if it’s good enough for the likes of Demi Moore and Catherine Zeta-Jones, why not you?
People already judge me about my boyfriend being five years older than me, and it makes it hard to focus on my relationship.
I’m too distracted by what everyone thinks about this age difference. – Younger Woman Dear Younger Woman, Make me a promise. I’ll even go as low as 24 years old if you follow these guidelines: The biggest mistake younger partners make in relationships is not having a life, being dependent on a partner and making excuses when boundaries are violated.
If people judge you because of the age difference, instead of getting defensive, ask them what makes them uncomfortable about your relationship.
While you want to go on a last-minute trip to Thailand, he might prefer to put the money into his pension or spend it on his children. The older you are, the more you know what you like and dislike, and the less likely you are to try new things or act in a spontaneous way.
This is not to say that you get boring as you get older, it’s just that responsibilities get in the way.